Hi Kathryn, well done on recognizing the reasons why your partner reacted like he did. Also well done on changing things around to stop this happening again.
I think your post really underlines the importance of telling partners etc about ALL debts/bills etc (please dont take that the wrong way, Im not suggesting you deliberately hid things) as your story shows an undisclosed debt that later crops up can damage trust that has been built up. Even if, as in your case, you have been doing everything right and not gambling etc keep posting kathryn
