Did you carry out the task you were procrastinating about, Monica?
Your situation sounds very similar to mine.
My old man does everything for me (with derision!) and nothing with me.
Well, that’s not quite true, he comes to church with me.
I asked him if he would come to the cinema last night and for a meal. I have vouchers for restaurants that will soon expire. He looked at me as if I had ten heads. He was “too busy”. This was one of the reasons I took myself off to the slots in the past. Casinos are one place you can go alone when other people are too busy..
He is a workaholic. One project after another, without pre planning or discussion. For example, he took up the tiles from the bathroom this week without saying why. They looked like new to me. About a year old. He has replaced them almost identical, but slightly bigger tiles . The job is not finished but he has started a different project. I have no idea what it is as it’s being carried on outside. If I ask, I get a surly answer. I can’t complain . He could be a compulsive gambler or worse still a CG in recovery who is hibernating, like me!
Monica, if you had money in abundance, what difference would it make to your present situation?
