Sad to say, Frankie, your actions are making it possible for your “CG” to continue gambling.
CGs are ten steps ahead.
When I was gambling, I set up scenarios where my enablers (I had two) would always be on the back foot so that I could always make them feel my gambling was their fault.
Another sad thing , Frankie is that a CG’s behaviour can turn enablers into deceitful people i.e. lying about cost of bills etc.
Give him a free reign would be my suggestion. In time he will hit rock bottom. No one can tell how long that will take though. I hit many rock bottoms and there was a trap door in each one.
CGs who are “thrown out” know they will be taken back. We surround ourselves with vulnerable people who will “forgive/understand/enable” us.
Sadly too when a CG is finished using their nearest and dearest it is not unlikely that they will move on…….
The decision is yours Frankie but allowing him to walk all over you is unfair to you and unhelpful to him. He won’t thank you for it.
Over and out!
