You don’t have to apologize for anything. I like this site because of the honesty. And one of my triggers and reasons for gambling is when people told me what I should or shouldn’t do. My decisions are my decisions, as yours are yours. There are some real life situations where we will be tested in our resolve, It will be up to all of us to decide what is right…..Since we recognize that we have issues is it better not to gamble? Of course it is, but to me there is no reason for you to feel defeated because you presented a real life situation.
I have had the exact discussion with my wife and counselor. Gambling in controlled situations has never gotten out of hand for me… It is when I abuse the opportunity when it becomes a problem. When I gamble alone is when I am out of control….but to me, those are my decisions and my decisions only.
In short, I think it may compromise your recovery if you are told what to do…Only you can make the decision, and be responsible for your choices.
I hope this isn’t offensive to anybody, and it isn’t meant to be, but I think it is important for us not to lose our ability to make choices, and if we make a choice that isn’t popular not to be ridiculed by it…
One of my new friends has recently relapsed and is terrified to post on the forums because of the judgment that some feel is their right to bestow upon him/her.
I am off of my soap box.. I wish you the best in your recovery, and thank you for sharing what issues you face!
