My husband ran out of money so now he’s acting all sweet and as if nothing is wrong. He is foreign Russian is his first language. He uses it to hide his goings on. I do understand a lot more than he thinks. He is on a gamblers forum in Russian site. To be honest I think they just taught him new ways of being sneaky with money. He took out loans after being on this forum. He is now blaming me for our financial situation. And threatening things like he usually does e.g killing our livestock so he can eat them. We are farmers. And have a small amount of animals e.d chickens, ducks, goats, and I just invested in some stud quality cows to breed and sell from. This was before I knew the extent of his hole digging. They are in my name only. I am trying to build a business and future for our son but he is incapable of planning for the future. I do not currently work, as our son is under one year and I cannot stand the thought of day care. And it’s also very expensive around here.