Monica,
Your friend has cancer – and if I remember correctly (sorry if I am getting mixed up ) it is a relapse . It sounds like she is lashing out – I guess her emotions must be all over the place .
She maybe needs to believe in this healer right now – she maybe needs the hope .
She also will need her friend so I am glad that you two have moved on from your differences but can I also state I never remember you blaming anyone else or playing the victim.
We are all where we are today which is not where we would be if we did not have a gambling addiction- that’s something we didn’t chose and we had little control over – these are the cards life has dealt us and we are all doing our best to deal with them.
I have taken on board your points – I know so many healthy and Flexible people who do yoga – I feel tempted.
I made a decision to stay within the confines and recommendations of Christianity – it gives me a simple blue print for life and even though sometimes my friends go to see spiritualists , reiki masters and fortune tellers etc , I prefer to stay “safe”.
I dabbled in all sorts not the past and now I just want to live simply and not worry if I am “opening doors” to anything bad . It sounds simplistic and it is simplistic – but it works for me !
Having said that everyone to their own. I was brought up catholic but find a lot of it is not for me and have refused to brain wash my child with a lot of it . He is now of an age where he can chose for himself and I know he prays and has the same simple but absolute faith I have . He may change and that will be ok too .
Monica, I guess there is a reason we should not discuss politics or religion with our friends lol !
So many different views even within a single faith .
I like Laura, worried about you starving – and I also pushed you to go to the food bank – you however stuck to your guns and you have survived – so you were right all along.
Monica keep remembering – you are only a job away from a good life – it will turn up – keep strong and stay positive !
Xx