Monica ,
I get paid on Thursday and I would like to lend you (I know how you feel about People giving u stuff) just a little to make Christmas less painful. When u get on your feet (and I know you will)you can repay me – it’s wont be a lot. Now this is a sign from the universe ! Do u have a PayPal account ?
I was kinda shocked by the response to your situation on the topics thread – if I knew someone on so little money I would’ve helping them out even if the gambled their entire benefit . I think you are right about The GA mentality – let people reach rock bottom and then they will get better .unfortunately it has been proven time and time again that this is a pile of nonsense – many people on here write of several rock bottoms and relapses . Some do eventually get there (maybe just it’s their time ) but for most their first meeting at GA does not signal recovery !
You are intuitive – you are aware .you have your walnut whirls and your wine – not a bad wee day !xx