I hear you Dave.
The wrong comments at the wrong time, especially if you are innocent can be detrimental to recovery.
I can’t blame anyone for my gambling only myself, but I remember hearing comments made when I was gone shopping “Yea we know where SHE is!”!! Maddening, but I have to admit I often said I was shopping for ten hours, when in fact I was in the casino , so it makes loved ones suspicious if we show signs of stepping out of line.
We need to earn back the trust. Very difficult to read the mind of a CG!
Just stay calm Dave or you will give even more reason for people to doubt you.
I know how you feel.
