Just spoke to my dad for first time in three weeks, only because its birthday and i wished him well. He rang back and asked how i was getting on, said i was struggling to find work and coping with having no help and having to pay off his loan. I said i almost told my mum about him the other day and he was like ‘you cant jds, it will cause so much hassle and you will be fine soon’.
I wont be fine soon, it will only cause him hassle. I feel annoyed at how he is still not listening to me saying i am struggling, he is offering me no help and continues to expect me to cover his back with everything.
I said i need some help financially, his next loan payment is due in 4 days and me paying it every month is leaving me with hardly anything while i have no work and once again he said he will give me money like he has done the last 6 months, if he doesnt get any money within the next few days i feel i wil have to tell my mum. I feel i can get through it without having to let her know if he helps me but i dont know how he doesnt understand he is leaving me with no choice to tell her if he doesnt.