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Monica1
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How annoying is that!
Well Pete came in and saw me beavering away with the washing. He saw that my toe was bleeding from a. ingrowing toenail and said that I was doing something, he would cut my nails. He used to do this for his mother before she passed. So he set up the vibrating foot bath, something I had forgotten I had and cut my nails saying he would file and varnish them tomorrow as he was going out. Pete likes to reward good behaviour. He said his only pleasure in life was watching Chelsea play.
On reading Bettie posts, she talks about codependency and I asked myself whether I was codependent. And you know what, I am not. If anything, early on, 15 to 18 years ago, I possibly was a little as I was more concerned about him rather than myself to great cost. Mysponsor also asked me when I started GA whether I was codependent and I was happy to say I was not. In fact I cant wait to move on and out.