I am a project manager. Currently with a public transportation agency in a position with very little control but a lot of scrutiny. I have 5+ years to go to get 30 which gives me the opportunity to retire and possibly go to work for a consulting firm. So I have chosen to “tough it out”. I do ok most of the time but occasionally I cannot handle the stress. Maybe not the best choice to stay on, mostly staying due to inertia, fear of future failure, and providing for family. I can do 5 more years, it’s not that bad and the people are ok.
I agree with you about spending less and living modestly. I am trying to do that. The fancy toys don’t mean anything to me anymore. I just have to remember that work is just work, I should not get emotionally wrapped up in it. It’s not worth it, but I still get sucked in. I take things way too seriously. Gotta let go. Letting go has always been a difficult thing for me, and is a focus of my recovery. I just need to get back to basics. Thanks for posting on my theead.