Imagine you bought a car or are paying off a student loan. Find a way to settle your mind.
your debt is still manageable and you
know now that your probl can get way out of control if not stopped
Focus your mind on the positives murr. You get yourself tied up in the why why why cycle. Honestly never helps (been there)
why did I not learn my lesson, why did I not stop when I was + x amount? Why did I get greedy? None of those questions helped
the result was the same.
you lost as much as I did murr. I gambled with my husbands money and my child’s future. i am not proud of that and it is something I will have to live with. I was supposed to go back to work in October this year but cut my maternity leave short and start in 2 weeks time because of my wrong decision. I will have to earn that money back
$1000 is a huge amount for some. times That $1000 by 52,104,208, 415… then it is no longer that small amount you imagined. Keep building murr. Onwards and upwards
be kind to yourself
be patient
Believe that you can make things better
believe that gambling will destroy what you have left
believe that each day without gambling will bring you closer to the peace of mind you once had.