I know you might not want to hear it but chasing 4,000 cost you 4,000 more. Chasing 8 grand cost you 2,000. more. STOP the bleeding. Trust me I know just as well as anyone how hard it is to stop the chase BUT i also know we NEVER ever get our money back! Glad you had them update photo. Now crawl out of the hole and get your life back on track. You did it before you can do it again. Not sure what your spiritual beliefs are, but reach out and ask for your higher powers help.
