Great post above.
I can see a big difference in your posts now JD compared to you first few and I can see that you do have a different take on some things, ie the ongoing support.
I wonder if you now have a different take on telling your wife? Secrets can be dangerous. But I would reckon if you tell her the truth she will be immensely proud of you, you are four weeks free of gambling, and that you post on here and use the support groups shows her that you are making a genuine effort to live without gambling.
You said in one of your first posts you wanted to get 30 days gamble free, well you’re here now. Day thirty one will be a lot easier than day one was, but like every other day not to be taken with a pinch of salt.
I’ll probably be in one of the groups later on and hope to see you there too.
Geordie.