Yes, honesty is quite liberating in its own way. Even if it is being honest with ones own pain. Not nice going through emotional pain alone though. The saying laugh and the world laughs with you, cry and you cry alone is so true. But it bloody well shouldn’t be Iike that, how about cry and you will find comfort, support and peace. That sounds much better. I ha e just officially made a change to that saying, I don’t mind being the only woman as I have always enjoyed male company… but you do sometimes wonder what the men are thinking about in some of my shares. Not that it matters that much. I always find the GA meetings incredibly helpful. I said at the start that I wasn’t going to make the coffees and teas so don’t ask but I guess at some point I will.