Hiya
If he didn’t ignore you he might feel he has to do something about his addiction and he doesn’t seem ready to want to do that yet – he still has some learning to do.
My first husband left me with 3 small children and it took me about a year before I felt able to move on in any sense of the word – there is grief for a relationship that has floundered and it is right to grieve, it is a painful process and sometimes we have to work at it. Healing takes time, it is gradual and exhausting but ultimately it is a walk back to life.
Do something for you tomorrow, something that pleases you and maybe post and tell me what you have done.
I believe it is good to give yourself some goals, small steps that are achievable – even if it is only a change of hair style – for me it was a change of hair colour!
I do hope you can pop in tomorrow evening; communicating in real time is great.
Velvet
