Answered on your old thread just now. Assertiveness is interesting. In my work i was very assertive, without being aggressive, much less so in my personal life. I kind of drifted with the tide. I guess it is a fine balance between listening, and how to express who we are and how we feel whilst not being selfish and aggressive. I have seen people who claim to be assertive but actually are very selfish and full of me me me. You are not in this category incidentally. Actually I may do charles group on it! It is an interesting topic. I understand exactly what you mean on how important it is for you to be assertive both in work and at home. I recognise a similar trait in You as I have had but conquered it, certainly in the work arena.
