Hi thanks for your reply, i told him i would be in charge of his finances so the bills petrol and food were paid for. I told him if he doesn’t let me control his money then we will be over basically. I’m glad i did this but this isn’t the issue now. It’s him aling for money all the time and begging for £10 to put online to gamble. He says if u do this i wont ask again for anything. And when hes paid he said he wont ask for any money from it.
The reason i let him have the money that is left over is because we would get into a massive fight and he woulc say i dominate his money and dictate it and then in the end i give it him because i don’t want the stress and aggrivation to show for my 3 year old, it is showing to him because he will shout stop stop when we argue which at the minute is every day…because he has mo money till friday so hes asking me all the time.
Feeling down and he threatens me when i dont give him the money. I’m slowly realising i dont want to live with someone who drags me down and detroys our relationship.
He only says he will get help when he has lost £100’s of his money.
