Hi Steph.
First of all I do have to take issue with you. Not gambling for ten days is a victory – you can remove the “small”, 🙂 well done you and take credit for that.
Remember, your husband holding your money doesn’t stop it being your money. We often talk about giving control of money to partners etc in reality it is the opposite. Being accountable and having barriers in place so we can’t gamble usually gives us more control over our money than we have had in a long time.
Well done on putting those barriers in place, keep posting.