Hi Shelly
I suspect he is not talking to you because he doesn’t know what to do and/or he doesn’t want to talk about separation and controlling his addiction.
Maybe you could tell him that you are taking his addiction seriously and you have sought support for you and that support informs you that he is unlikely to be able to control his addiction on his own and why try when there is so much willing help available.
This site offers anonymity; he can access support from our helpline, our CG groups and out CG forum and nobody will ever know who he is.
I can still hear the strength of your conviction that you cannot live this way and I am hoping that he can hear it too.
Keep going Shelly, you are doing well.
