Hi P! I want to thank you for all of the supportive posts on my thread. You don’t know how many times you posted when I was feeling so down and just seeing your positive post would make me feel better. I am proud of you for standing up for yourself. After my Husband died and a lot of my family members weren’t there for me, I started standing up for myself. I let these people control me and use me like a puppet for their own gain. I can say no more easily now and I am learning to put up boundaries people. I have removed very toxic person from my life. It isn’t easy but I think it is very healthy. I am such a big people pleaser which goes back to my childhood. I think that it is great that you put yourself and your happiness before anyone else’s. Change is good! Keep doing what you are doing. You are awesome P!!!
