Hi Mal
You must have been reading a different post to the one I read. I read a post written by someone in despair and more worryingly written by someone who had given up not just on the person he loved but himself too, which creates the perfect atmosphere in which an addiction can grow.
You are both going through pain but it is so important that you deal with your pain first because in a weakened state you cannot support her as she needs to be supported if she wants to live a gamble-free life..
Stick with the forum and please join the F&F group.
I will reply more fully later but I just wanted you to know I am listening and I understand what you are saying.
Velvet
You may never know what results come from you actions but if you do nothing there will be no results – Mahatma Gandi
