HI Lily,
Thanks for your post. CG has been quite non-committal with regards to the details of what he actually wants me to do with his money. We have been currently dealing with a “lost” wallet which conveniently turned back up just before the races this week.
I think the main reason he wants me to have his money is just that, he needs a place away from his family. I have always said he has to do that before I would consider living with him (in reality, he needs to struggle with paying bills and budgeting and pain we ALL have to go through to get our bills paid regularly and in full and on time).
Just to explain the ridiculousness of my CG’s denial of addiction, all afternoon he has been sat in the pub watching Cheltenham IN HIS GYM KIT!! so his sound mind was going to the gym. This makes him happy, improves his mood, gives him focus. The gambling monster has had him sat in the pub all day watching racing.
He has messaged me though asking if i want to see him tonight. we arranged a date night earlier in the week, but with the distractions of racing, i thought it would go straight out of the window (better things to spend money on than me). So either he has had a good day on his bets or, well i cant really think of the other option…
So hard to decide whether to meet him or not…