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Hi Jesere

#5628
velvet
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Hi Jesere
In what way are the other friends and family supporting your partner? Most people do not understand what enabling means but you do and that is important. I spent 25 years doing everything wrong for all the right reasons.
If you partner is still on poker websites then he is keeping his addiction alive. Did you download the 20 questions and if so what was his reaction?
Keep posting J and live in the middle or ‘your’ life and not on the periphery of your partners – even if he is making bad choices, you don’t have to.
Velvet