Hi Jen, thank you for your post on my thread. yes of course i remember you.
I have found it really hard to build up gamble free time- I usually manage to scrape through so i understand how difficult it is, and how easily and quickly progress can be lost.
I guess we just need to accept we have to do those hard things- set up every barrier possible. i have never fully let go control of my money and even when i think i have closed every door another one will sneak in. I’m not sure how others do it -life for me is a constant battle, but they do it and we can too.
We deserve all this money to be spent on new carpets/cars/holidays as much as anyone else.
Why do you feel you are an introvert on the site? I don’t say very much on my journal but i do chat a lot in groups. Perhaps you could come to some- unfortunately they are a little for those trying to get a good nights sleep.