Hi Jansdad
Just a thought – if your wife ‘knew’ that you were struggling in the evening and late at night she could support you. Loved ones can be very difficult when they are blinded by ignorance – when they are kept in the dark how can they know how to behave? .
Your wife is affected by what you do and who you are but because she is in unaware she cannot ‘choose’ to support you and thereby support herself also. Are you afraid that, if you tell her, the door you are holding slightly ajar will be closed?
I wish you health and happiness in 2015 and I look forward to you closing the stable door to keep the horse safe from bolting.
Velvet
