Geordie is right….what a massive leap! You should be so so proud of yourself.
When I laid all the bills out on the table to show my husband, knowing we would have to sell our home, knowing he could very well tell me to sod off, I had decided to ask him to take control of the finances. He did it, begrudgingly, as he had never paid a bill in his life or had to deal with money issues and had no idea what to do.
The weight, the relief I felt was astronomical.
I hated money. It was killing me and now I didn’t have to deal with it anymore!!!
About a year later I started paying the bills again, I was stronger, and he was over it! Lol
We now communicate often about money. Yep we still fight when there isn’t much, but the bills are always paid and the food is always on the table.
I must say though, with this baby girl coming the bank account is going to take a hit!!!!
Love K xxx
