Hi everyone! The city trip was stressful and very disappointing. Sunday my Grandson broke both wrists during a fall. He is in double casts and a lot of pain. He will rebound! This is not his first broken bone. I came home early. I didn’t make it to the cancer walk as my oldest Daughter and I had a terrible disagreement. She has decided that it is her responsibility to tell me what I should do with my money and whom I should leave it to when I die. Yes, really! She is upset that I would leave half of my money and things to my youngest Daughter. Very selfish! Anyways, it is my money and I will do with it what I want. Also, she has no job since last Tuesday. She knew that the company was being sold. She has been saving her money and her boyfriend will help her out if needed. I asked the question, “can you pay the mortgage”? As the house loan is in my name because of her bad credit. I also put my money down on the house and paid all the closing costs. Oh my, she blew up on me. I thought it was a perfectly legitimate question to ask. She did give me the payment. Looking back, I should have had her sign a contract regarding the house. I didn’t think that I would have to worry, but her reaction tells me I do. She is also complaining as she thinks that I should pay for any fixes done to the house. I have paid the home warranty and the house is supposed to be hers when her credit is good and she can get a mortgage. Just a nasty mess! I haven’t gambled with all of this stress and I am proud of myself. I can’t gamble as I need to make sure that I can pay my bills and the house mortgage if she can’t. She has decided that she is going to draw unemployment and stay home with my Grandson for awhile. I guess she wants her boyfriend and I to take up the slack. Isn’t going to happen as I will sell the house if it comes to that point. She couldn’t even rent a home for what she pays for the mortgage. Entitlement, that’s the word that describes her! The good thing is that she is there to take care of my Grandson. I know this is a long post but I need to vent and release. I came home hurt and very disappointed! I am feeling much better after going to the gym this morning and being in my own environment. No gambling urges! So, I am dealing with this a lot better than I would have in the past! Progress!
