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Hi Clare

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velvet
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Hi Clare
I am hoping to hear from you soon with some answers to the questions I posed last night.
Not every CG responds to GA, not every counsellor is aware of the toxicity of the addiction to gamble. Your believe that you husband wants a life with you and his children which offers hope that he would stop gambling if he had to tools to do so.
My question to you is therefore – what do you want? You feel in your head that the right thing to do is to tell your husband to leave and maybe it is but I hope that you will return to this forum soon so that you can know in your heart as well what is right for you.
You are afraid and I understand that. I don’t know what your outcome will be but I hope that if you can talk about the terrible circumstances that have brought you to this point, with those of us who understand, maybe you will be less afraid.
Emotional wrecks need a lot glue to put them back together but I believe that this site has tons of the right glue and once we find the right glue we can start rebuilding.
Speak soon
Velvet