Hi Ck2
In this forum we never suggest that ultimatums have any value unless there is a genuine determination to carry the threat through. Compulsive gamblers are the masters of threats and they soon recognise when a threat is no more than words – a threat not carried through is a green light to a CG, it merely serves to let the CG know that they can probably carry on without consequences.
It would be great if you would start a thread of your own here, a place where you can get support for yourself as well as giving it, our Helpline if terrific, one-to-one and anonymous.
Velvet
