Hi Carole, Thanks for your post! I am sorry to hear that you have been in a emotional funk. There is a lot going on and some hard decisions to make. I would hate to see you go back to the country into the same place as you haven’t had time to grow on your own and there hasn’t been any resolution. I am thinking of you today!! I am still learning to put up boundaries with my Mother and sometimes with my Daughter when I see our relationship sliding back into the old mess it was. It is hard being a people pleaser but I am working hard on doing what is in my best interest. Carole, we have to look out for ourselves and in the end, I think that happiness is the number one thing for me. I hope you can get the job you interviewed for and can stay in the city. I want you to be happy!! Talk soon.
