Hi cant write much as about to go out. But immediatly NOW hand over ALL access to ALL money to your wife. Cards / online banking and any other kind of access to money. If you do not do this today I can almost guarantee one of 2 things.
1 : You WILL gamble again and probably very soon
2: You will loose absolutely everything.
The writing is on the wall as I sat where you were some 4 years ago and yes I lost EVERYTHING. Please act now before it is too late. Time to play hard ball here and get real about this. The gambling will destroy you. Don’t let that happen I implore you!!
Heres hoping you make the right choices TODAY! All the best John