Hi Ab
I am glad you have found this site and found your way into one of Charles’ groups. As he said there is an F&F group tomorrow 20.00-21.00 hour UK time – it would be good to ‘meet’ you there.
You have already armed yourself with information and make decisions based on that information. I am pleased that you are feeling the relief you deserve from living in the shadow of the addiction to gamble, however, I am aware that this is early days and you have said that there is a possibility your marriage will be rekindled so I am pleased to be able to walk with you at this time.
I would not be writing here if I didn’t know that the addiction to gamble can be controlled and wonderful lives lived, possibly even more wonderful ‘because’ of the addiction and the courage it takes to face it so I know that your husband can change.
Is your husband still attending GA and as he shown any signs of improvement?
The dog is a wonderful ice-breaker for you, it give you a chance to see for yourself any change without putting any pressure on you to discuss his gambling.
I am going to leave my first post there AB – I just wanted to let you know I had heard you and understood all that you had said.
Velvet
