Hey fritz, I also read a book which had a profound effect on my family life .. The book was really all about obedience to your husband which I find silly, but I tried a few things and really after reading your post i realise I put him first more… So it’s kind if the same thing
MAv I think from fritz’ I also get the impression you think you have ruined everything .
If your businesses is gone-its gone!!
Your family is still there.
Try for a day to put your wife first in everything.. Like every time u have a negative thought . Stop an d think now how does this help my wife.?
It might break the pattern of dwelling on your mistakes and also will make your wife feel loved and special!
You don’t want to look back on now in six months time and think why didnt I do more about my marriage?
Fritz ‘ advice is sound… Look after those things you still have!!
I hope this helps Mav and doesn’t sound like I know it all- cos that wud be far from the truth!!