Hello Bodeni and welcome to GT!
I hear you on the “non supportive” husband saga!
When I knew I was “in trouble” I asked my husband (begged him actually) to keep an eye on me, i.e. not to allow me out alone with money, come for walks with me or to the cinema/theatre or for meals. He didn’t listen. He didn’t hear me. He didn’t want to know. This suited me down to the ground! Now I REALLY had an excuse to gamble! I would punish him for letting me down , for not listening!
Know what?
I spent another six years punishing myself! I created HUGE debt, wrecked what was left of our relationship and destroyed my health!
A CG will use every excuse to gamble
Stop for YOU not for HIM
Did gambling solve any of my problems?
You BET it magnified them a thousand times!
Keep posting!