Hello,
If you love this guy and he can be trusted I say that you turn over all finances to him for at least a few months. Give him all cards. Get a joint checking account. He gets all money, work money, etc. he can then give you a card from the joint account that he can then transfer roughly $30-50 a day as needed for you to get by day to day. He will pay all bills for you. You just get a very small allowance from him. Anytime you need a little extra you need to explain what for and show the receipt. I know it sounds a bit maddening but I’m telling you it’s a good way to just have no access to gambling. Once you do that for a couple months you’ll probably be out of the fog and be able to see things more clearer… Sounds like you are making great progress. Way to go. WOOOT!
