hello Izzi,
so pleased that you and your BF are working together To help you stay GF.
often Anger and hurt clouds reason and good judgement but I am glad that he heard you out and realised he is the best person to support you through this.
definitely a good move with the wages and your BF reading up about how to best help from his position.
about the time frame, perhaps take each day as it comes and let some time pass before you decide on your next movE. I am the queen of impatience so I always try to remind myself that this problem of mine will take time. Please don’t hurry yourself.
Your feeling stronger with BF by your side makes complete sense . Love conquers all. I also feel that with my hubby here beside me, understanding my problem, without judgement, aids me with my recovery.
I am doing a lot less damage than if I was left to my own devices.