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Listen more important right now is to pay the money to them without explaining how this happened so that you can at least keep your job. Have you done anything like this before???
Put your bills on hold if you have to to get it done.
You must give up cards and and never let this happen again re your job.
Time to take big steps so that you can get this addiction under control. I don’t know anything about you but I can say this for certain. We need our jobs in order to live so please rethink ever putting your job on the line.
Have you gambled for long.???
I hope you can seek help right away. Ban from the casino or put blockers on your computer. get someone you trust to control your funds for now.
I am working recovery every day now and though it isn’t easy it is going well. I have been gamble free for over 4 months now and never want to gamble again.
I used hypnotherapy to help me this time and have been completely honest with my family about my addiction. I have gambled for about 16 years off and on. The longest time I refrained was 9 months but at the time I was trying to prove to myself and my family I could stop if I wanted to. I was convinced I could gamble in control but that wasn’t true. I managed it for awhile but over time I lost a large amount of money and even with self imposed restrictions I was simply wasting money and working even harder to make up for my loses. I carried on like this for years until I found a way to get my hands on my line of credit while I was at the casino. Over 3 visits I spent 12 thousand and shocked myself into realizing that I was no longer able to control my addiction. I was forced to come clean to my hubby and with his support I continue to not gamble. I am working hard to pay back dept and my monthly commitments. Its tough and I wish I was done with it but I brought this on myself and myself will get me out of debt. I feel anxious and have urges often but I give a voice to them now and tell my hubby when I need his support. Its working one day at a time and I am happier now that I have stopped. FG.