He does have free access to his own funds…but since he has been gone…on his payday he has a list of bills and he pays them first and foremost…gets his necessities..and that $ has to last him till next payday..no acess to credit cards or savings..if he runs out of money its on him…i have acess to check the accound because it is a joint account and im really proud of how he has for the first time in our marriage started to handle money in a mature responsible fashion and not depend on me to give him money every day from my account after his runs out…thats not an option and no longer will be. He has never before thought about financial reprecussions before and does so alot now..i would really like to find a local support group to speak to like minded people…i know one of the meetings he goes to is open for family but hes not ready for that yet..
