Hi Velvet,
Im here writing in flood of tears,
We had a great few days since he lost £180 online on monday, claiming hes had enough and he wants me to ban him from all the sites. Then he got paid today the day was going really well from the morning, had a nice meal together Thursday evening as our son was staying over his nans and we went swimming as a family the next day. This didnt last long as today he got paid from one job and got more than he expected so planned on buying a ps4 but didnt have enough so tonight he asked for £10 on his card from his wages and ive said no. So hes told me i cant have control of his money and im not getting a penny next week when he gets his monthly wage for bills.
He said you dont expect me to quit just like that? I said no but if u were serious about everything you said monday you would be trying to quit… he said he didnt tell me to ban him from the online sites…must be imagining it.
I feel like a complete idiot and we are going round in circles.
Im just going to put the £200 he has from his wage on his card and let him deal with his problem because im so exhausted after 7 years of this happening every month.
