I did a Study on Dreamwork many years ago, Monica. I think dreaming of dead bodies signifies a break in relationships or regret.
Your sister is playing on your generosity.. Just like my “friend” who borrows.
My guess is you are not her only benefactor. Can you get yourself nominated as the person with Power of Attorney for your mum? By doing that, she will be assured of her wishes being carried out when the time comes and beforehand. Hopefully, she will enjoy many good years of independence first.
It is no coincidence that I gambled on the day I was to meet my “friend”. She always whinges and begs for money. It stresses me . I feel guilty when I refuse. To be honest, I had no great desire to meet her. It was her request to meet me. The night before I had stipulated that I would not collect her at her house, as I always do, that she should take a ten minute drive to meet at a neutral venue. Ten mins for her, 50 mins for me. Just as I was leaving home-driving out the gate, her text came “It’s too cold for me to go out today”. In other words “come and collect me”…the rest is history.
Some relationships are NOT healthy so why do we maintain ?
What’s in it for me, I ask? I have answered partially.
