You do need to be honest with your wife explain to her it’s an addiction that you got and you need help getting over you need her she is your key to help you stopping really don’t go get 30k loan pay 20 off leave you 10k that 10k is 10000 pound in 20 pound notes really we don’t see money go when we gamble online you can not afford to gamble another 10k try get yourself that loan wih a good apr rate to pay credit card off or try leave your self with 2k to help you with expenses for rent ect your first step it to tell your wife with my partner I could say now I would be dead I had to tell my mrs I was 80k in debt she stood by me explain you got an addiction you are going to go GA you want to recover that the place to be mate they will first tell you tell your wife she’s your key of stopping if I don’t reply before 6 I’ll be at work driving hope this is another day that you are gamble free mate one day at a time and just for today I won’t gamble x