Dear (((trinitysky)))! I’m so sorry that your boyfriend is not going to stand by you and support you. Perhaps when he has had some time to think about it, he may change his mind. His parents’ focus will be on their son as someone so eloquently said previously, so their reaction isn’t surprising. You are under a tremendous amount of stress right now, and staying the path for your recovery has to be your priority. You need to stay clear thinking so that you handle your next court date with clarity and honesty. I am really hoping that you get to keep your job, and your recovery and job can be building blocks to start a new life with less stress. Take each day moment by moment and try to worry as little as you can. Someone suggested the serenity prayer and perhaps picturing God of your understanding being a big eagle and sheltering you under his wing can be helpful. I really feel for you (((trinitysky))) and am hoping that good things start happening in your life. If your boyfriend chooses not to stand by you, perhaps he isn’t the man you think he is. Carole
