Dear (((P)))! I read everything you post on your thread and other people’s threads, and I find that you are changing a lot, especially in the past few months. I think the biggest change for a female cg is when women start standing up for themselves and starts putting in boundaries with people that are toxic to them. I found some people didn’t like that I no longer felt responsible for their problems, and did nothing to help them out emotionally or financially. I saw this saying on facebook about stop swimming oceans for people that wouldn’t jump puddles for me. I HAD a lot of people in my life that wouldn’t jump puddles for me. With your mother boundaries are essential! Mother/daughter relationships seem to be the most complicated!!! Carole
