Hi Kathryn,
I just read your story, and I hope you’re doing well. I wanted to write to you for your insight and perspective. My mom has been gambling since I was 13 years old, and even though I’m 36 now with 2 children of my own, I still get hung up and hurt by her.
I guess I’m wondering if there is anything I can say to her that will get through to her that we all feel like we’ve lost our mother?…or is it better to distance myself and protect my heart?….
I’m really feeling overwhelmed lately and feel like I’ve had a revolution about my mother. I feel like I need to forget the women and mom she used to be and see her as an addict so it doesn’t hurt so much when she lies and disappoints.
What is it like to be a mother with a gambling problem? Did you only see how your actions effected your girl once you quit?…Thank you so much, Kathy
