[desdemona]

Danny just called and said “this is your idiot husband calling!” I said that I hadn’t called him an idiot. He said it was him calling. He apologized and I said, why don’t you just tell me that I’m not spending enough time with you? He said “it’s not just that.” At that point I tuned out and stopped listening. This is a skill that develops with long-term marriages, and I’ve got it mastered. Does turning the oven on self-clean count as housework??? Carole