I have one too, I-D-I He comes free of charge He also does all the house maintenance, supplies fuel, builds etc etc. The downside is, like the person you mention, he is a moody ******* and everything that goes awry is my fault. I give as good as I get, sometimes and sometimes (but not today ) I punish him (and myself mainly) by saying “why the hell do I bother”.
At these times and for many other reasons I threw away thousands upon thousands. Nothing is perfect. I don’t blame anyone but as you rightly point out everyone deserves peace and we all have the right to say “enough is enough”!