No offense taken Vera..now and in the future..please always feel free to be frank lol.
My wife knows I am gambler yes..but perhaps she doesn’t know or realize the extent to which I once gambled. I have no problems to tell her all though and I have been thinking about doing this soon enough.
Excellent point about CGs being top notch charmers when we need to be.
I also considered your thought on opening a bank account that requires 2 signatures to withdraw funds (an “AND” account instead of the more common “OR” account). Oddly enough, when I was thinking straight (and not consumed by gambling) I already proposed this idea to my wife to help control our spending. A “AND” account with NO credit or debit cards attached to it. Basically, we would both have to go to the bank together and make an over the counter withdrawal..making it as inconvenient as possible to take money out of the account.
There are currently no programs like GA, etc., in the area where I live fyi. I did join GA in the past in another place, but I prefer this website to be honest.