Gamble free & enjoying the quietness of my mind, it’s still early days but good. Things with the bf are good, we had a bit of miscommunication when I confessed to him about gambling and he really honed in on a couple of things I said, he misinterpreted it, he was angry and upset. He has been researching tips to help your partner through this time which I’m glad he is doing. He wants to support me as much as I can, he discussed doing a credit check on me to see how bad the finances are but I don’t think he realises he can’t.
I have shown him my debts & he will have control over my finances from my next pay. Losing your dignity to gambling is pain enough, honestly think I would have been in a terrible headspace if things didn’t work out with my boyfriend. He realised he was being a selfish idiot.
How long should I let him look after my finances? Will I just know when I’m ready?
Looking forward to hearing from you amazing people.