[Monica1]

I just had a chat with m y eldest son about the impact my gambling had on him. Very little he said. I had never borrowed money from him and that this was my form of self harm after having the rug pulled out from under my feet when I had tried hard for so many years pre gambling to keep everything together, more so than anyone else. He said that many times he had warned me about where it would end up and that I had accused him of being judgmental. So, very litle damage to my eldest son aside from gambling away any inheritance money. I know my children well enough to know they don’t place money above other things.